WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF ME IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS

by Ravipal Atwal

“WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF ME IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS” – H.G.Wells

Being LIKABLE to everyone is NOT A NECESSITY of your life. Only you know what is going inside you and you are the only one who knows what is going on in your life. Your behavior is yours, no one else has any right to DECIDE how you should behave. It’s okay if some people don’t like you or they don’t get you, you are unique. You DON’T need to waste your time to EXPLAIN yourself to others.

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1. SELF-RESPECT AND SELF LOVE

Your treatment toward yourself will REFLECT. If you respect your feeling, emotions and decisions then others will TREAT you the same. If you think you deserve to be loved, then you the first one to start doing that.

2. LISTEN TO YOURSELF

DON’T SUPPRESS your inner VOICES, let it come out and let yourself enjoy the freedom. It is not good for the long run to keep your feelings to yourself. Communication can open new path. It makes the relationships strong. If you can not hear yourself, other people won’t hear you as well.

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3. BE CONFIDENT

Wear it as your ARMOR, it represents you. It will open many doors for you. If you don’t have it people will run all over you, don’t let that HAPPEN. You gain confidence over time and with experience. You will not be scared of trying anything new and making new connections. Confidence is one thing that you would want to wear all the one time.

4. BE YOUR OWN LEADER

Take responsibility for your ACTIONS and don’t let others lead your path. When you take control, your decisions become your responsibility. You will put all your effort to achieve your goals and make your dreams come true. You will gain experience; and will learn from every mistake you make.

5. DO NOT COMPARE YOURSELF

Your qualities are yours and your flaws are yours, so own them. DON’T TRY TO FAKE your character by comparing and copying others. Everybody is unique, find out your character and personality and work on it. See where you are and where you want to be and how can you make improvements and be yourself.

6. INCREASE YOUR SELF WORTH

What you think about you, stands out easily and people will think the same way. You should know what you are CAPABLE of and treat yourself well. Best gift you can give to yourself is understand and knowing yourself better. Do not think that you are less than anybody.

7. DON’T BE SO NICE

Being nice and AGREEING to others a lot can put you in the place from where it’s hard to come out after some time. So, don’t just agree to what others are saying, have your OPINION and be true to yourself and others.

8. IT’S OK TO BE WRONG

You are not supposed to be RIGHT all the time. Stop feeling bad if you made a MISTAKE. Accept your flaws and abnormalities. Everybody make mistakes in their lives and no one is born to be right all the time. DON’T BE ASHAMED if you are not good at something but you need to keep working on your flaws. Keep learning from your mistakes and keep on progressing.

9. DO NOT JUDGE

If you don’t want people to judge you, you need to LEARN to do the same. Everybody has same FEELING as you. If you don’t like people who judge you and if other persons judgement hurts you, then you need learn to not judge others as well.

10. LEARN AND DEVELOP YOUR PERSONALITY

Learn and Improve every day. Learning something new will help your career and will INCREASE your CONFIDENCE and your SELF-WORTH. There is no age to learn something new and there is UNLIMITED amount of information available. You have whole life, so keep working on developing your personality.

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