” All progress takes place outside the comfort zone.” – Michael John Bobak
We all have our personal comfortable place, which is always so COZY and relaxing. We don’t like it if anything OUT OF BOX happens in those boundaries. It brings panic, burden and irritation to us. It’s is very hard to bring people out of that and put them in the situation totally different than their DEN. But what you need to understand is there are always BETTER things waiting for you on the other side. There is always a place for improvement in whatever you do. When you will open yourself to try something new, it will help you in increasing your knowledge and confidence.
1. FACE YOUR FEARS
Your fears are your enemies, they will STOP you from moving FORWARD. Your brain will list all the cons first, it will list what can go bad in the SITUATION. It’s is not the fault of the brain; this is his duty to PROTECT us. Brain will start sending you all the bad SCENARIOS. Now the brain is doing his job but your job here is to process it and tell your brain all the possible solutions and good things about that particular thing. So that you can come out of your fear. You need the support of your brain, but the brain needs to see something positive to PUSH you towards doing that task.
2. BE OPEN-MINDED
DON’T RESTRAIN yourself with your unnecessary thoughts of worry, fear and stress. If you don’t start to SEE the possibilities and opportunities which are available out there you will miss the chance to grow and achieve your DREAMS. Be open to conversations, listen and PROCESS them. Don’t just stop them from far without even knowing what it is about.
3. BE READY
Don’t step back and don’t scare when you see the BRIGHT LIGHT on the other side. It’s is okay to feel overwhelmed but be ready to ACCEPT that, things can go right. You can do it. Be ready to explore, learn and be ready to work hard.
4. EVOLUTION AND CHANGE
Keeping in mind that change is REQUIRED to bloom and get better will keep open-minded. You are changing each day, it’s a new day, a new beginning which will allow you to write a new ending. Make it a PROGRESSIVE ENDING for yourself. Change is outside your current state.
This is another enemy which will stop you from doing anything. It’s easy to CHOOSE to rest over getting up and working, but that is just going to waste your time and you will be left behind. You need to DEFEAT YOUR LAZINESS, there is no other way. You need to fight for your freedom from your habit of slacking.
Being able to do different things will give you an experience and will give you an opportunity to learn. You will try to IMPROVE as you go on in your life. Learning can never end, there is always place for NEW things. You just need to give YOURSELF an opportunity to learn and do more.
7. EVERYTHING STARTS FROM YOU
Keeping yourself open and READY will give you time and strength to LOOK outside and explore. It starts from you, because you are the only person who CONTROLS your life. If you choose to do nothing, you will become nothing. If you GET UP and starts to work hard on your dreams you will see the PROGRESS with time.